Tuesday, December 25, 2007

Can You Love and Cheat?

Peoples' opinion :

No, because if you truly love someone you would never do anything that could hurt them

I think so. Refraining from cheating is a discipline, not an emotion that can be controlled by love.

No, but you can definitely lust or like a lot and still cheat.

My personal opinion is no, if you love someone you wouldn't cheat.

Yes, it just might hurt you or them if they find out, and just hurt you with guilt. karma is always a consideration.

Only if you can separate sex and love in your mind

Yes, especially if you are a sex addict

If the person you love treats you well then it is almost impossible to cheat on them....if you love but are mistreated but still love in spite of it you become vulnerable to any outside attention which soothes a need.

Sorry this would be a no. If you love someone you wouldn't want to hurt them by cheating. It's quite obvious. The situation you don't want to get yourself into is that you end up falling in love with the person you are cheating on with. Then you end up loving two people. If you are with someone and love them, show it, how could they trust you if you cheat on them? I am not sure how you can love someone and cheat on them... What have they done wrong? Why would you feel the need to cheat if you love them? You need to think about that.

Women can't, it is un-natural. Men can though.

Man is the worst animal, yes, he/she can cheat the person he/she loves

I think so. I don’t believe that you can only love one person, so if you're in love with your partner but then also in love with someone else...well, there is no rule saying this cant happen

If you love someone, cheating shouldn't even be a consideration, the day that you think of cheating, is the day that you should end the relationship

You can. You can also have your cake and eat it too.

If you are in a good relationship, why do you ever want to think of cheating? It's so unfair. Yea, the moment you thought about cheating, it's time to end the relationship. It will hurt the partner so much when s/he finds out about this. I was cheated on and I know how badly hurt I was. If you love him/her, please, don't do it... Don't do something you might regret later on. You'll feel guilty if you still love him/her.

Cheating is being dishonest. There's another aspect to this question that is missed out, i.e., can you love (and have sex with) more than one person at a time?

Yes. "Cheating is bad. Honesty is good."

Hmm! try it and see.

Well, you have read it all, what do you think? Kindly post your opinion..